Hehe, owned by SpeedD.
Nope, I don't have heaps and heaps of girls. The problems are I don't care enough, I'm seldomly on the offense trying to get girls (partially because there aren't really that many girls I feel attracted enough towards to actually make an effort), and that I'm perfectly happy without a relationship. I also have a very hard time falling in love*, which explains the lack of relationships.
I'm not about to get into a relationship unless I'm actually attracted to the girl, on a level apart from the physical (neither will I get into one if I'm not physically attracted to her, of course). And because I'm strange, that goes for trying to get into their pants as well. There needs to be something more than just looks for me to get in there and make an effort. And this "something more", whatever it is, seems to be in very short supply among most girls.
I would also like to point out that I've only been like I am now for maybe two or three years (one of which I was stationed far away from society, in an army base up in the cold north. All was not bad, though. I met Talhoffer, among other things). In High School and earlier, I was a reclusive nerd and way-too-nice guy.
As for seduction, I'm fully aware that girls aren't that difficult to charm. If I can just get started, which is an area I'm not very good at, I tend to do rather well. I love flirting, and will try to set up a flirt with any girl I find physically attractive (well, at least as long as I'm not already flirting with somebody else there and then). How she responds to this, I suppose, might be a part of the "something more" mentioned in the second paragraph (that is, not whether or not she flirts back, but how she flirts back).
*no, really. I think I've only fallen in love about thrice throughout my life, only one of these being fairly recently. Sure, I get slightly infatuated from time to time, but then I realize I don't really want that girl after all. I've no idea why this is, maybe my early attempts at love made me subconciously reluctant to commit. It's probably not a good thing, and for a good while I believed myself unable to actually fall in love. The theory was proven wrong earlier this year, when I suddenly did get surprisingly strong feelings towards a girls I know. Nothing ever happened, there was a writeup about it in here, and I'm not going to be bothered telling it all again, except for mentioning that she came on pretty heavily to me, and I was starting to believe that she really liked me. Which kinda supports the reluctancy to commit-theory, as I did believe she might be interested in a relationship, and therefore dropped whatever "shields" I have and let feelings emerge. This is sounding either very emo or very pseudo-psychological, or a mix of the both, so I'll stop here now.
