no, buttsecks isnt hawt!
Having personally experienced such an event, I would have to disagree, though it really is more a matter of opinion.
What is your sexuality, if i may ask ?
No offence/phun intended.
Pansexual?
From Wikipedia:
Pansexuality is a sexual orientation, distinct from bisexuality and characterized by potential aesthetic attraction, romantic love and sexual desire for anybody, including those people who don't fit into the gender binary of male/female implied by bisexual attraction. It is sometimes described as the capacity to love a person romantically, irrespectave of gender. Some pansexuals go so far as to claim that gender and sex are meaningless to them.
Giving is obviously better for the giving party, and recieving depends on a lot of factors. Some people don't like it, but for some reason, that part of my body is an erogenous zone. The physical factor is there, because there are a lot of nerve endings in there, and for men there's also the prostate. The problem is it's quite a bit physiological.
*shrugs*
I have several people that will tell you from first hand experience that it's sexually gratifying (to recieve). Others will say they didn't really like it, or it hurt, or some bullshit. You have to do it right, though. It can't stretch that much right away, you have to use plugs, or at least a finger!
Now this is the point where I probably should stop, because some people get offended, or say that this discussion isn't appropriate for the forum.
Anyway... that's your sexual education for the day.
